First Date Dos & Donts

January 19, 2009 at 1:52 pm | In tips-advice | Leave a Comment
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There are two types of first dates in life concerned with dating. The very first date comes only once in life i.e. when you go first time for dating. The other type of first date is that when you choose other partners for dating and go with him or her for the first time.

Here we are mentioning ‘Do’s and Don’ts for the first dates’ which may be useful for you in both types of first dates :

  • Do -Meet in public place to avoid any unnecessary situation, still be prepared for it.
  • Do- Converse with eye to eye contact. This will increase your reliability and charm in him/her.
  • Do- be well dressed, use perfumes, uphold proper etiquette and hygiene.
  • Do- Be polite but with self respect.
  • Do-Leave full knowledge about his/hers phone number, address, photo etc. with your family members.
  • Don’t anticipate much in your first date. Never indulge in sex, on first date. It may create problems later.
  • Do- Be very nice, keep positive attitude, talk with confidence, if you were wrong- accept it, laugh where necessary (but in limit).
  • Don’t reveal secrets of your family or your past life but try to know of her/him.
  • Do- After finishing conversation by her/him ask questions which may arise in your mind, but keep annoying questions for the next dates.
  • Don’t- show disinterestedness by your body language unless you really want to show it.
  • Don’t- forget to have your cell phone with you.
  • Don’t use alcohol or drugs.
  • Don’t try to speak yourself, be a good listener, encourage your friend to speak about himself or herself more and more, limit yourself to hi, hello, yes, no, ok, good, very good, please, thank you and small filler questions etc. In this way you could know many goods and bads of her/him.
  • Don’t be punctual; let her/him wait for you at least 5 to 10 minutes. Hear if any comment comes. Comment or no comment will reveal his/her nature. If necessary give any suitable excuse.

Dating Advice For Boomer Women

October 17, 2008 at 5:06 pm | In tips-advice | 1 Comment
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Dating doesn’t necessarily get easier with age as sometimes the older we get, the more we expect and demand out of situations and we more often than not won’t put up with situations that in the past would have been a normality for us.
There are though ways we can get around the awkwardness of getting into the dating scene as a Boomer Woman and here are a few things to take into consideration before hitting the dating scene once more.

First things first look deeply into your heart and mind and ask yourself if you have the time and energy into putting into a new relationship especially with the opposite sex as it carries its own demands. If the answer is yes then you should re evaluate where you are currently wasting time and energy that you could do away with so you can give some room for romance to blossom as this age may often mean you already have a tight schedule.

Next on the list is to see where you can go to meet the perfect mate and if you are looking for a light relationship or something that could end with living together in a long term marriage or partnership. Now once that is decided see if you want to go the online route or the hobbies route. If you do the online thing then you will find many good sites that can cater to your needs. Otherwise you can get to meet socially at clubs and places of mutual interest.

Another important factor is to look good and feel confident and this means treating yourself to some nice new clothes and a new hair do. You don’t have to go over the top but you can make your dating escapades special by feeling great and making yourself feel special first. Every age has its beauty so don’t ever even think of trying to compete with younger women as you have all the beauty and wisdom and love that you can give in your own right to the man that actually deserves it.

Tips to Find the Perfect Mate

October 9, 2008 at 12:22 pm | In tips-advice | Leave a Comment
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Finding that special someone in our lives can seem to be one of those near impossible tasks that we like to set ourselves but on every important point to remember is not only what we want to find in a person but also we ave to analyze what we can offer that perfect person also which is something that many of us tend to forget and place all of the burden on our partners.

1. Fist and foremost you have to ask yourself this very fundamental question as you happiness and that of your partner depends upon it. ‘Am I ready to find the perfect Mate?’.

2. After making a healthy assessment of yourself and doing a good self analysis if you think you are ready for this great step in your life then take it as a pleasant experience and not as a job!

3. Get yourself freshened up and looking gorgeous. No on is saying not to be yourself, on the contrary, just accentuate yourself to the best level you can.

4. Be honest to your prospective partners and honest to yourself. We are human and we make mistakes.

5. Don’t aim so high that you are looking for a star to fall from the sky, go for something realistic as it as a greater chance of falling into your lap.

6. Be relaxed and casual about it. If the first isn’t the one, then the second just might be.

7. Mae yourself available everywhere. Go to meet ups, eat out and walk a lot. You just don’t know who you could bump into around the corner, even while shopping!

8. Stay focused and alert but don’t get stressed as this will only work against you. You will find that perfect Mate if you give that person the chance.

Flirting Tips for Shy Girls

October 4, 2008 at 4:44 am | In tips-advice | Leave a Comment
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Overcoming shyness in a girl when it comes to dating isn’t so hard as it may seem at first as love and romance are part of every day life and the natural Order of who we are as Human Beings. The Mating Game can be a wonderful experience which can be enjoyed by two people but it as to start from somewhere and overcoming your shyness in flirting is the first stage to successful dating.

1. This is a numbers game so we can’t be successful with every encounter, some may flop and others may be brilliant. If you take away the fear of being rejected then half the battle is won. Everyone is in the same boat as you in their adult life so this should bring you comfort.

2. Men are attracted to shy girls so as long as you give a little coy shy contact like the Princess Diana look, then you could win many a fluttering heart with just one deadly look so use your eyes.

3.Smile at the other sex as that is one of the best ice breakers. Flirting doesn’t have to be vulgar and all sexual innuendo but it can also b courteous and polite and sexy at the same time.

4. Wear clothes that fit you well and you feel best in. That works wonders for you confidence every time. Once you are totally at ease with yourself then the shyness will go ot of the window.

5. Don’t look at this as a competition that you have to be like any other woman. You are an individual in your own right and a unique human being and f you want to be successful then you just ave to be you and not try to be anyone else.

The Keys to Successful Dating

September 17, 2008 at 4:39 pm | In tips-advice | 2 Comments
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There isn’t one single formula to success in dating but a number of things can determine how successful your outcome can be if you follow a few hints and tips.

The main tip to follow is all to do with who you are. Being the best of yourself is better than trying to be someone else. This can lead to disaster so feeling comfortable in your own skin is one of the most important ways to gain success in this area which is sensitive and delicate to say the least.

Other very ways in which to get a good deal out of a date is to make sure you are clean and fresh and looking tidy, even if you are going for the casual look. Casual doesn’t mean looking like an Alley Cat or Street Urchin. Getting your hair freshened up and maybe into a new style could also boost your confidence and enhance your overall look without being too overbearing of course.

Always wear what you like yourself in most as you want others to like you, you must feel good first. There is no use wanting others to admire us if we feel badly about ourselves. These insecurities can be felt on the outside and won’t do you any good in the long term. Be confident but not Boastful and Brash so you can have the edge in communication without being aggressive.

In conversation with your Date be warm but not crude and make sure you show your prospective dating partner respect at all times as this is paramount to a healthy relationship developing. Just following these few hints can lead you to a happier and more fruitful dating life.

Choose Perfect Dress in Dating

September 14, 2008 at 4:16 am | In tips-advice | Leave a Comment
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This is one of those time evolving enigmas where one is asked on a date but never quite sure what is the best outfit to wear. To give an idea into what is the best way to choose the perfect dress you have to start quite methodically like being your own detective which should make it more fun and interesting, rather than a stressful exercise.

1. Remember that on a date you want to feel cool, calm and collected well as much as you can be in the circumstances so wearing something that makes you feel confident and happy is the no one rule in this matter. You shouldn’t wear something that just doesn’t reflect your personality but at the same time you don’t want to look like a fish out of water in the eyes of the Onlooker.

2. Make sure you have an idea of where you are going on your date, even if it is a surprise just ask politely if it is casual, sporty or formal wear as that is only fiar that you should at least know that so that you can wear the appropriate attire for the forthcoming event.

3. If you can afford it go and treat yourself to something new but if you can’t then just add some new accessories to give your outfit a new look and to give yourself also that extra confidence boost as confidence and comfort are the two primary sources for successful dates apart from having an attraction to one another of course.

4. Make sure your dress or outfit shapes your body well and isn’t either too sexy or two frumpy, you want something that leaves a little mystery but at the same time not a complete turn off as this is a date you are going on.

Internet Dating Tips

September 5, 2008 at 3:32 pm | In tips-advice | Leave a Comment
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Dating via the Internet is quite a daunting task for many, especially if you have never embarked upon this feat in the past. Have no fear if you have written up your own CV or Resume then it’s a little bit like that but just a tad more personal and quirky.

What you have to remember is that to lie is out and to be honest is in and you have to make good in remembering this from the start. The easiest thing about the Online Dating Game is that you can easily set the pace and you have a chance in finding what you want by narrowing prospective candidates down before picking the preferred choice you have made.

Try to organize yourself from the offset and find the RIGHT ONLINE DATING SITES to suit your dating needs. There is no use looking for the Love of your life in a casual “let’s find an easy partner for a one night stand, overnight sex singles site” as your chances may be running slim. Make sure also that you look for sites that have tight Online Security features that also have a high privacy rating for women dating online as these are the ones that will be producing the best results. So rule no1 is to find the right kind of sights to register. After that is preparing your profile and this is where the fun begins. Make sure you write a lot about yourself and try to be humorous as well as serious in the way you portray yourself. Make the Reader feel at ease with you as soon as he or she clicks on your page. A pimped out profile, looking attractive with some crispy looking pictures of yourself and perhaps the area you live in will spark interest and you are more likely to get many hits on your profile than a boring looking personal page. A good addition to your profile is to write about what you are also looking for in your prospective partner as in this way you are engaging your prospects with a desire to know them better. Being a little flirty and saucy in your writing isn’t a problem but getting vulgar is so try to know your boundaries as to what is acceptable and attractive and what isn’t.

When you do start getting interest be prompt and polite when returning messages whether is is a rejection or an acceptance as this will show the others that you have a polite manner which is very endearing even in this day and age.

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